Today marks another year of my life—a day that’s supposed to feel special and filled with joy. But instead, it feels like just another reminder of the struggles I face. I know I’m not the prettiest person in the world, and that’s okay. But sometimes, it’s hard not to feel invisible when no one remembers or bothers to wish me well on my birthday.
It’s not about the need for validation, but rather, the desire to feel seen and acknowledged. We all have moments when we wish someone would say, “Hey, you’re important, you matter.” I guess that’s what I wanted today—a little light in the form of a kind word.
Being tough on ourselves, especially about appearance, can cloud the more important parts of who we are. Deep down, I know that my worth isn’t determined by my looks or the number of birthday messages I get. Yet, on days like today, it’s hard to ignore that sinking feeling.
To anyone reading this who might feel the same—like the world forgets about you sometimes—you’re not alone. It’s okay to feel what you’re feeling, and it’s also okay to want more from the people around you. But just remember, your value goes beyond what others can see or say. And just because they don’t say it doesn’t mean it’s not true.
So, here’s a birthday blessing for myself: May I continue to grow into the person I am meant to be. May I learn to appreciate who I am, regardless of how I look or how others treat me. And to anyone else who feels this way, know that I’m sending my best wishes your way today, too.