Today is my birthday. You’d think that birthdays are a time for celebration, happiness, and the warmth of good wishes, but not for me. It feels like a regular day—just a little quieter and lonelier. The truth is, I’ve always felt a bit out of place. I know I’m not the most attractive person, and sometimes that feels like the reason people avoid me. I guess it’s just another reminder of how isolating life can be when people don’t see past appearances.
Maybe you can relate? Maybe you’ve also had those days where you just want someone to notice, to care, to wish you well, and make you feel valued. But it’s easy to feel invisible when the world seems focused on looks. It hurts, but here’s something I’ve come to learn: self-worth doesn’t come from others, and it certainly doesn’t come from how you look.
Even though no one has blessed me today, I’ll take this moment to bless myself. I’m still here. I’m still learning, growing, and deserving of love, even if it feels like no one else sees it.
If you’re feeling the same, remember: Your value is not measured by someone else’s attention. So, happy birthday to me, and happy you day to you, whenever it may be. Let’s be kind to ourselves—today and every day.